January 2012
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December 2011
163 posts
People are acting as if a new year is going to...
Why would you wait for the new year to change who you are? Truthfully, you should change, if you want to change, the moment you think you need to. People use the excuse of it being the new year as if their slate is wiped clean, but truth is, it’s just a one day difference from the day before. The year number might have changed, but there’s no magical thing that instantly changes who...
I miss sleeping on the phone with somebody. I’ve slept on the phone with people that are special to me, and the sad part is, none of those people are part of my life anymore. I miss falling asleep on the phone or FaceTime with people. We had so many good, long, and interesting conversations, and somehow things changed to the point where we no longer talk. All I want are late night...
A good conversation I love having..
I love talking to people about their majors, and their field of expertise. I find it interesting to learn more about other’s majors and subjects other than my own. I get really fascinated in learning about other majors I know nothing about. Perhaps I just love learning more about the world, and the other types of jobs a certain major can achieve.
Public displays of your relationship.
It seems that a lot more drama arises when an enormous amount of people know about your relationship. Sure, you can take cute pictures, kiss each other, write cute posts, but what happens when troubles arise in your relationship? Indirect posts of your problems in your relationship, gossiping between people, people telling your significant other some bullshit about you and vice versa.
Then what...
Friends over feelings
People who treat you special, who smile and laugh when you make a joke, who talk to you and sleep on the phone with you when you’re feeling sad, and those who want to be around you whether you’re happy or sad, those are the people you want in your life. Sometimes, feelings develop, and sometimes things become complicated. The situation is only complicated if you, yourself, makes it...
When people get too comfortable with you..
They start changing the way they act towards you.
When a guy calls you cute, but they say they're...
I'm dating this one guy
I think he’s smart, and I could honestly say I couldn’t live without him. We’ve been through many happy and rough times. Lately we’ve been going through rough times, he dates people that hurt him, and I do as well. He lost his way before, but I’m happy to say that he’s finding himself. He’s focusing on school and work, and whatever happens, happens. He told me that he’s the only person I can...
I want the name Justin.
So many puns that you can make out of the name Justin.
Justinhere
Justinthere
Justincase
Justinmyroom
Justinschool
Justinherpussy
Justinthemall
JustinNorCal
JustinSoCal
JustinAmerica
Justintime
Justinmybed
I hate how distant I’ve become to some of my friends. No matter how much I try, I feel as if I annoy them when I try to talk to them. I guess friendships change, much like relationships. I try to my full extent to keep a friendship alive, but sometimes my efforts are futile. I guess I should understand and I should accept that people out grow me. Perhaps I’m being a little dramatic,...
Feelings change, people change, love changes.
There is no way to avoid change. Sometimes, change comes out of the blue. The person you once thought you loved begins to annoy you, the conversations you had begin to die down into meaningless words, and the person you thought was amazing begins to dull down. People may get upset that your feelings have changed, but truth be told, you can’t do anything about changed feelings. Relationships...
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It's not easy
It’s not easy to stop yourself from developing feelings for somebody, but it is very possible. I feel as if we want to like them because of the feeling it gives us, but once we snap out of our euphoria for a second we realize that if we end up developing feelings, things will become more complicated, and there is a chance you’ll lose your friend. It’s not easy to not fall for...
It’s always, you’re worth the risk, then a I should have listened.
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TMI
I was using my friends iPhone, and I went on Safari. When I typed the letter “x” by mistake, three porn sites popped up, and I was like, “OMG, HAVE YOU BEEN WATCHING PORN ON YOUR PHONE?!” Then my friend’s reply was, “Oh, it must have synced with my computer.”
However, my websites never sync onto my phone.
When people ask what pho is..
Stop searching for love, and start searching for a...
I don’t understand how people can choose love over life. Diluted youthful minds think that love will solve all problems when all it does is stray your attention from real priorities. People would rather hold hands than hold down a job. People would spend endless amounts of money that they don’t even have on their significant other. I’ve never dated anybody without having a job...
My greatest phobia
Next to spiders, it’s losing close friends. I can’t fathom how many times I think about people I used to be so close to, and now we barely talk. Where our long interesting conversations become a bland combination of mediocre diction to form a simple fragment. I hate when such a great friendship disintegrates into almost nothing. I think about how much I wish our lives would go back to...
I’m scared to start liking, but even more scared of what will happen if I do, and that is what keeps me from liking people.
I'm a heart breaker...
Who’s had his heart broken many times as well.
Pet peeve
When people insult you when you don’t know something about what you’re majoring in. There is a reason why people go to school to major in a subject, because they want to learn more about it. If everybody knew everything about what they’re majoring in, then why the fuck would we pay thousands of dollars to learn shit we already know? I know I don’t know everything about what...
Am I weird?
I love to read about grammatical rules and learning more about English. I guess that’s why I’m an English major, because I enjoy learning more in writing grammatically correct.
Something else that I do is come up with a sentence in my head such as, “I found today to be extravagant.” Then I take a word out of the sentence, such as extravagant, and come up with a definition...
It's not you and it's not them.
Sometimes, it’s not anybody’s fault why a relationship doesn’t work out, but sometimes the timing is not right. A high school girl dating a guy in college, for example, is a drastic switch in life styles. While the high school girl may want to party, experiment, and study; the college guy might want to study, work at his job, or some sort of adult life style. When you’re...
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Assumptions
It’s annoying when people make themselves crazy over something that isn’t even really happening. Like thinking your significant other is cheating on you when they’re not, or when people assume that you’re dating somebody when you’re actually not. It takes low self-esteem to make assumptions that affect your emotions. People need to take a breather and chill out...
I want a kiss. Not a make out, not a little peck, but just a one second, lip to lip, no tongue kiss.
I find it annoying when a closeted gay tries so...
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It takes two.
An individual should always show self-control when it comes to sexual acts, but the other individual needs to show self-control when it comes to saying no to sexual acts. In my past, I’ve shown lack of self-control, but truthfully we make mistakes, and when one fails to control their actions, it’s up to the other to control themselves, and say no. When I really like somebody, I...
Before you talk about me..
You don’t even know me, or where I’ve been. You don’t know my relationships, and you don’t know what I’ve done. Obviously, you don’t because I’ve rarely even talked to you. Before you do some judgement, do some research. I would confront you about things you’re telling people, but to be honest, it’s not worth my time. You’re just a little...
Merry Christmas...
We celebrate Kwanzaa… What the hell is Christmas?
I don't think I would ever start a relationship...
With long breaks from school and your every day life, things are bound to be different. Winter time is the lonely season because of the cold weather, the reduced sunlight time, and the break from school. Of course you’re going to be lonely and yearning for a significant other, but truth of the matter is, how do you know that it’s not just loneliness for the reason of the relationship?...
Highly Desirable People.
The ones who everybody knows they’re cute, sexy, or just plain UNNF. Those are the highly desirable people. With them, love is literally a game, a pick and choose kind of thing. So many people like them, so many people want to be with them, they have the looks and the personality. When I find out somebody I’m eyeing is highly desirable, I usually just start to pull away. I don’t want to be another...
I hate young teenagers.
From thirteen until around sixteen and seventeen. Most of them are the most obnoxious, think they know everything, loud mouthed, dramatic, doing too much to be cute, little kids. When I was a teenager, I was never obnoxious like most of the idiotic little children I see today. I was always nice and polite. It seems like, nowadays, kids want to act like complete jackasses to get a chuckle from...
There, always.
When you talk, I listen. When you cry, I’m there to hold you, when you’re angry, I’m there for you to complain. When you’re happy, I’m there to be happy with you. Now a days so called “friends” treat you like a resource instead of a friend. A friend is suppose to be there for you when you’re sad and happy. When I’m happy and I tell somebody why I’m happy, they almost never seem excited for me, or...