Brown Eyes|Destiny’s Child
I know that he loves me because he told me so, I know that he loves me because his feelings show..
Brown Eyes|Destiny’s Child
I know that he loves me because he told me so, I know that he loves me because his feelings show..
It’s not Monopoly, where the more you own, the more people owe you, and do stuff for you. Just because you have more than the other person does not mean they are any less than you.
It’s not Scrabble, where you have to read in between the lines, and try to figure out the others next move so that in the end it won’t screw you over.
It’s not Clue, where you have to try to dig up dirt and inspect on them to figure out if they’ve done something wrong or if they’re innocent.
It’s not Sorry, where you do something wrong, and all you have to do is say sorry when you’ve knocked them down.
Love isn’t a board game. Perhaps the other has features that others view as more pleasurable, or more attractive, but it doesn’t mean you don’t have other characteristics that make you special. The reason why they love you is because you have something they don’t and they enjoy that fact.
Say what you mean, reading in between the lines, trying to figure out what they actually mean, it gets annoying, and there is always a fifty percent chance that they won’t get mad at what you say. Just say straight up what you want and need, but say it to the point where it isn’t sounding demanding.
Love is about trust. Without trust, there is paranoia, worries, over-thinking, and unmotivated anger. The reason why friendship is so important in the beginning and before a relationship is because you need to trust them as your friend before you can even trust them as your lover. Without the trust already there, the other can do something small, and the other will make a big deal out of it.
Love is not about saying sorry. If you do something idiotic, it is customary to apologize, but just make sure you never do it again. The other should not hold a grudge towards what you did wrong unless the problem persists. The only exception to this is cheating.
Love doesn’t have playing pieces, colorful boards, or written down rules. Over time people have made love a game of who can get who, a game of pay back, and a game of cheating. Just love, don’t make a game out of it, don’t play games, just love.
I might not have the best body, the sexiest face, the biggest dick, the most toned arms, the smartest mind, or the nicest personality, but I’m one thing that nobody else can be, and that’s me. My love is special because nobody can treat you how I can treat you. Perhaps somebody can be better or worse, but in reality, nobody can compare to my love. My love is unique because of the way I’ve lived, the way I’ve grown up, what I’ve seen, how I’ve been treated, and nobody to duplicate or recreate that. My love, it’s something special, and all I want is for you to feel it.
Brown Eyes|Destiny’s Child
I know that he loves me because he told me so, I know that he loves me because his feelings show..
Some good and some bad. They can make a person be a better person; generous, patient, understanding, and forgiving. Love can also have some negative effects on somebody; being “whipped”, isolation from friends, jealousy, paranoia, insecurities. The thing about being in a relationship is that everything before the relationship should not come into play into the current relationship. You don’t bring up an ex, you don’t use your insecurities on past relationships, and it should basically be like a clean slate.
Sometimes when you truly do care about somebody, you become “whipped” and it does show that you love them, and you care about them, and that you’ll be there if they need you. However, love shouldn’t be an excuse for somebody to treat you like shit and get away with it. You may love them so much, but the love is like Novocaine, they’re beating you senseless, and all you can do is lay there and take it.
When people know they have that hold on you, that security that you won’t leave them, they start to treat you a little less than you deserve, simply because it’s easier to treat somebody like shit than to treat them amazing.
Nobody deserves to be treated like shit. After somebody vents to me about their relationship problem, my first question after they’re done venting is, “So what are you going to change so that you won’t have to cry to me about this again?” Because I’m tired of people coming to me for the same problems, and no thoughts of a solution.
The obvious answer is to break up with them, but obviously it’s hard and you’re “in love,” but truth is even pet owners treat their pets with respect. Love doesn’t give a person the right to be continually treated like shit.
Pet owners treat their pets with respect, they feed them, they buy them food and water, they buy them shelter, they spend time with their pet, and they cuddle with their pet, and they almost never refuse to give attention and affection to their pet.
People nowadays treat the love of their pet more higher than the love of their significant other. If you think you’re taking their love for granted, most likely you are.
Brown Eyes|Destiny’s Child
I know that he loves me because he told me so, I know that he loves me because his feelings show..
Cuddling.
Everybody knows what cuddling is. Simply holding somebody in a special way, but you may ask, why? Why does everybody love cuddling? Next to sex, cuddling gives you a certain kind of feeling, a feeling that isn’t explainable, but everybody feels it naturally. Laying there, with your stomach against their back, wrapping your arms around them, and smelling their hair, their scent, and having that feeling that everything is going to be okay. Cuddling, unlike sex where lust is created, is where love is truly created, where you can talk to each other, where you can get to know each other, and unlike sex, cuddling can last for a long period of time. Some nights, I know that we all just want to hold something, have a deep inhale, and know that everything will be alright.
Me and somebody I use to date were walking to Sonic’s, it is walking distance from the mall in Tracy, and we were talking about feeling if it’s right, and sparks when we kiss and everything. As we walk up to Sonic’s we stand on a patch of grass in front of Sonic’s and we peck on the lips. Right when we kiss, for some odd reason, fireworks flew up. Him and I were laughing and saying I think this is a sign.
I would give up everybody else just to be with you. Distance, people, friends, family, nothing would keep me from caring about you. In all honesty, I would be the best if you and I were ever to become anything more than friends. I would treat you better than any others would, and I would always care about you. I’m willing to give you my everything because I believe you’re worth it, and that’s something that I don’t think about everybody. You asked me what makes you different, and truth is that I don’t know what makes you different. I can’t explain it, and when I do nothing but “uhm’s” “hmmm’s” and “I don’t know’s” come out. I wish you would give me a chance, you’re different than the others, it’s not explanatory, but I do feel it, and if my feelings believe you’re different, then I have to believe that you are.
